While the alluring close-up dick pic and bathroom shirtless selfie may seem the most tactical choice in the pursuit of the ever-so coveted nudes; you must examine where you stand amongst your competition. Every gentleman on this site has the same presentation and offering; so in this sea of dicks ask yourself this question:
How can I get nudes? The answer; as simple as it is complex: attract a girl. The odds are stacked against you, something to the tune of 25:1 guys to girls on sites like these. So how is it you can stand out and peak the interest of your female counterpart? I will offer my advice:
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Positivity is desirable. In your photo, be sure to be smiling and ideally be in an energetic or upbeat setting. And always, always try to make her laugh. To quote Marilyn Monroe: “If you can make a woman laugh, you can make her do anything.”
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Be confident, not arrogant. Whatever it is you begin your conversation with her, do it with confidence and speak with genuineness and authority. However, be careful not to cross the thin line that is the over-inflated ego of arrogance.
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Intelligence is attractive. Instead of offering the default “hey what’s up” I implore you to construct a slightly more thought out introduction. It could be a comment about her picture or bio. Something to signify you have a brain attached to that pink trombone.